SOME
NOTES ON OUR HOUSE
After
the Second World War, there was a housing shortage, and vast numbers of
prefabricated houses were prefabricated in factories, and later they were
erected on site. These were the famous
"Prefabs". Although they were "cold in winter and hot in
summer", they were excellently designed and fitted out for their day. There was a coal shed and a garden shed made
of corrugated metal. The house itself
had a coal fire (enclosed with fire doors) attached to a back boiler which was
right in the middle of the house. On one
side of the fire was the room fitted out as a kitchen. It was very modern. It was inside, there was no obvious fireside,
but there was lots of preparation space, a hot tap and a cold tap, and a gas
fridge. Through the door was the front
room, which was used regularly. This was
where the fire was. Through the door
opposite was the hall, with the front door on the left and the other two
bedrooms and the bathroom at the end.
There were two hot taps and two cold taps serving a wash basin and a
bath. There was also an indoor toilet. I had the front bedroom, and my parents had
the back bedroom. I was not allowed into
the back bedroom without permission.
(When I was clearing my mother's bedroom in a different house, fifty
years later, I still felt uneasy being in her bedroom, even though she had not
lived there for six months or so, and had passed away a few days earlier!)
What
you have to remember is that Gran's house, which we had just left, had an
outside toilet, an added on shed which acted as a kitchen, and a shared outside
wash house. Apart from the back room,
none of the rest of the house had any heating at all. In comparison, the prefab was a palace.
Underneath
the kitchen table which had a coir mat in red and cream stripes, I used to play
with canary pudding tins, which I used to stack on top of each other. For Christmas Santa brought me a tin plate
spinning top with a siren.
We
had a corner plot at number 68 Queens Road.
I am still in touch with Tony, (he was three years older than me, and lived
at number 2 Warwick Place). We didn't
have a lot in common, but we played together.
OUR
GARDEN
So
my father had a corner plot, and he grew vegetables. He grew runner beans, french and dwarf
beans. Broad beans, potatoes (two
varieties, Arran Pilot and King Edward, I think), peas, sprouts, curly kale,
purple sprouting, brussels sprouts, carrots in rows, rhubarb in the corner. There were lots of snapdragons and marigolds
and dahlias along the borders, and large red poppies. Elsewhere there were roses and a small lawn. And I think, sweet peas, whose flowers were
so fragrant. One thing we didn't have,
that many of our neighbours did, was a boundary hedge. We had a primitive post and wire fence which
dated back to when the house was first built, and a gate that didn't close
without effort.
Marjorie
from Windgather came to stay. I went in
our car with Dad to Cheltenham Lansdown station to collect her. Her train arrived with a red engine on the
front, which meant that it was still painted in LMS colours. The LMS had been nationalised at the start of
1948, and it is the only LMS engine I can remember. That's all I remember about her visit!
My
only other two memories in 1949 were both significant in their own ways. Once I could walk, I chose not to. Instead of crawling, I sat and moved myself
round with my bottom sliding along the well polished linoleum, which had a wood
block pattern. This was sufficient
independent movement to get rid of the pram, and get me a pushchair. I suppose the nearest modern equivalent would
be a stroller, except that mine had silver mudguards! One day we were going shopping. On the way to the town we passed the cricket
field and I remember I suddenly thought "It's 1949!" Nothing else.
This was my first conscious knowledge, that I remember, of time.
The
other memory was of much greater significance.
Our house was at the top of a small hill in Queens Road, and just round
our corner was a steeply sloping Warwick Place.
I
was playing in our garden with a small stick, and I threw it in the road. I remember that. I also remember lying in the gutter crying my
eyes out. What had happened was that as
I dashed into the normally empty road, a young man on a bicycle came speeding
round the Warwick Place corner and hit me so hard that I was knocked over and
hit my head on a kerbstone. I don't
remember being taken to our doctor, but I'm sure I was, and that he rendered
first aid. A few weeks later I was
diagnosed with Epilepsy, which of course has changed and limited my life ever
since.
I don't recall it, but the young man was off
to a tennis match, he apparently had the racquet in one hand and a box of balls
in the other, which meant that he was riding without holding the handlebars, so
that he couldn't swerve or apply his brakes.
The strange thing is, that ever since that occasion, when I have heard
that story told, I have never ever had any feelings against the fellow. I don't even know his name. As far as I am concerned, it is Kismet,
Karma, Fate.
After
a short while I started to have small "turns". My brain seemed to be switched off, then on
again, and I didn't even fall over. Mr
Anderson, my specialist, prescribed phenobarbitone to work on the epilepsy, and
benzedrine to wake me up from the sleepy side effects.
I
was on barbiturates and amphetamines – uppers and downers, at the age of three. I have never understood the attraction of
"recreational drug use"
LEARNING
TO READ
My
Mum and Dad didn't teach me the ABC, instead, years before it became generally
used, my parents taught me a sort of phonetic alphabet.
"Ah,
Buh, Cuh, Duh, Eh, Fuh, Guh"
They
also bought me some readers. These were
books with simple sentences.
"Sing,
mother, sing"
"Mother
sings to Mary"
"Mary
sings to John"
"They
sing together"
and,
"The
cat sat on the mat"
"Tuh
huh eh". [ No John!, the TH is always
called "Thuh" or "Thith"]
"Thuh
cuh-ah-tuh (cat) Suh- Ah-Tuh (sat) ,Oh, nuh (on) [good, John, well done!] Tuh,
huh, eh [we've already done this] I look back and see "Thuh"
"Muh, Ah, Tuh, (mat). [So what's
that all together then]. "The cat
sat on the mat" "Well
done!" said Mum. "You can
read!" But of course I couldn't.
We
went through the orange book, the blue book, the yellow book and even the red
book, but I knew, and Mum knew, that I had memorised sentences.
One
day, when I was about four, my mother was running my bath preparatory to my bed time. I was looking at a sentence and I was able to
work out for myself: "Sing mother sing".
"Mummy,
I can read" I shouted as I headed for the bathroom. I was promptly scooped up and returned to the
books. Look Mummy. "Sing mother sing". [Very good!
What's the next bit?] "Mother sings to Mary" [Very
good!]" Now she turned to another
book, and opened up a page.
"What
does this say then?" she enquired.
A
sea of letters swam into my eyes. But I
took little bits and gradually put the shapes of the letters together. "The cat sat on the mat and had some
milk. Afterwards he purred."
My
mother was already purring. I was in bed
when Dad came home from work. He came
into my room and said "I hear you can read". Almost certainly (although I don't remember
it on this occasion) he would have given me his special smile, which was reserved for very
special occasions (and ice cream!)
Very
soon afterwards, I was taken into Smith's in Tewkesbury High Street and Dad
bought me "Thomas the Tank Engine" by the Rev W Awdry, and that
introduced me to the joy and possibilities of reading. I never had to bother with "Sing mother
sing" again. Instead I had a proper
book with real stories.
It
was 1950, I was four, and I could read.
I can't really remember much about 1950.
It's not that I don't have any memories.
It's just that I don't have any events to hang those memories on.